Wednesday 8 January 2014

Why Boredom Could Be Good For Your Kid



                            
It is a widely fact thing that children all over the world are known to always be in a cheerful moment and ever lively especially if a favorite meal is what the mother has prepared.
Subsequently, a video game with either  FIFA soccer or chasing cop will never give room for boredom  a seconds, but if you see your child moody for a while panic not because Boredom in children is not a bad thing and can prepare them for dull moments in adulthood, a prep school leader has warned.

Julie Robinson a training director of Independent Association of Prep school as assure parents that We should not fear boredom . Quiet, reflective time is just as important as purposeful activity and when one is quite you tend to think more and know more about yourself, Also time should be made for reflection, meditation and calm.
Though through making friends and suffering occasional unkindness we develop an understanding of the motives of others and by trial and error we learn effective communication skills.
Children need time to develop through tactile play but cramming children’s schedules with extra-curricular activities could hinder their development and make youngsters manic and anxious.
Parents who push their children too hard with extra-curricular activities risk burning them out, but youngsters left to amuse themselves could lose their competitiveness, she added. in another vain digital pastimes since could not provide children with well-rounded development, and said: ‘Computers are an exciting fact of life now but do bear in mind that human development follows a pattern of phases and stages which has not changed because of the digital revolution.
  ‘These soft skills are what future employers will look for, and by encouraging explicit analysis of social interaction we will serve today’s children.’  ‘So, above all, try to resist being accidentally drawn into ‘overbearing parenting’ by pre-planning each minute of your kids give them time to sober.

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